Is this wrong?

My BF and I are both divorced and have now after about a year really started to do things together with my son and his two son's. We are seriously talking about marriage and the realities of the new blended familes and it's possible difficulties.

I would really love to have one more baby, but really don't want a 4th boy. I really only want to have one if it's a girl. I know I would fall deeply in love with a baby boy if that's what we were blessed with, but I feel guilty that I really wouldn't even want to try if I knew it wouldn't be a girl.

I feel horrible and guilty about these feelings and wonder if I am really wrong for wanting this? Please try to be kind with your opinions.

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Asked by kdwiegandt at 11:44 PM on Feb. 11, 2012 in Pregnancy

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IMO, I do not think you are wrong in thinking like this. Girls are so much more fun to shop for when it comes to getting baby girl clothes!

Answer by Michigan-Mom74 at 11:51 PM on Feb. 11, 2012
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Maybe you really don't want another child then???

Answer by Crafty26 at 11:51 PM on Feb. 11, 2012
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I can understand prefering a girl, but not ONLY wanting a girl, so maybe you should leave it as it is.

Answer by Princess_s21 at 6:29 AM on Feb. 12, 2012
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I do understand, I mean you already would have 3 boys together. But, since their are no guarantees, maybe you shouldn't have another.

Answer by 3libras at 12:14 AM on Feb. 12, 2012
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Definitely understandable but since nothing can be done to be certain you have a girl, you shouldn't get pregnant.

Answer by meooma at 11:14 AM on Feb. 12, 2012
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One of the many benefits of adoption !

:-D

Answer by doulala at 1:54 PM on Feb. 12, 2012
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