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i have a friend who is pregnant

she is a child only 17 yet she thinks this is going to be a fun game once the child is born she wont listen to anyone who tryes to tell her its not a game it isnt going to be all games the baby is going to need to be taken care of shes goign to be up all night i asked her if she cant even watch my kid for an hour for me with out getting upset and frustrated how is she going to deal with her own child if she dont even want to stay up with my kid when she is watching him how can i get it into her mind that it isnt all fun and games


Asked by nikkicorbett at 6:03 PM on Jan. 17, 2009 in Babies (0-12 months)

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  • She will realize it after the baby's born. Too bad she didn't realize it before she got pregnant.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:09 PM on Jan. 17, 2009

  • It probably won't ever happen until the baby comes. Sadly some girls just don't know the work put in to being a mother, but she's going to have a rude awakening when that little one comes.

    Good luck,

    Answer by julipickle at 6:05 PM on Jan. 17, 2009

  • well the sad thing is, if she has it in her mind thats how its going to be then there is no convincing her. the only thing that can convince her is reality.. sad but true!

    Answer by dared2lovexx at 6:05 PM on Jan. 17, 2009

  • There might not be anything you can tell her that will make her realize that. It might be that the shock of suddenly having this tiny life to be responsible for is what's going to wake her up. She's deluding herself if she thinks this will be easy.

    Answer by amethystrse at 6:05 PM on Jan. 17, 2009

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