My 3.5 year old nephew

he will be 4 in July. My sister cannot get him to use the potty he screams when she puts him on the potty and he says no when I get bigger. She put him in underwear and she said he doesn't even care that he wets them he will walk around like nothing. My sister also doesn't realy disipline him much her boyfriend does, but she don't so he is like supper bad. Yesterday he was here and broke my 4 year olds ball and kept pushing my 4 year and almost 7 year old for no reason at all. Then my sister told him to stop and he goes up and pushes our big flat screen tv. My sister lets him get away with way to much so he doesn't listen to her at all. But my sister works a lot she gets 2 days a week off and lately has been working like 12 hours and when my nephew eats at the daycare then he eats what they make so you know he is eating somewhat healthy their, but her boyfriends mom works at the daycare so when she gets off work she takes him home with her. He eats breakfast at home which he wont eat any cereals, all he will eat is like cinnoman toast or he eats pop tarts or lately he has been wanting dognuts. Then lunch is at the daycare and dinner when she works he gets tv dinners. For snacks she says she can't get him to eat anything all he wants is cookies so that is what she gives him and buys for snacks. Yesterday I made dinner here and they came over I made tacos she crunched up a taco shell and on his plate and shredded cheese that is it he didn't want anything else on it so she didn't make him. Drinks all he drinks is koolaid wont drink water or milk. He is the oldest in his daycare class cause he can't switch until he is potty trained. But yet my sister is trying to have another baby ugh. When she says something to him he will ell I DON"T LIKE YOU. Or he will smack her leg and say no. She laughs at him, onl her boyfriend disiplines him and he isn't even the dad. My nephew calls him dad though cause he has been around since he was 2 months old. The live together too.

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