What do you think my dh meant when he said...You need to use your time wisely?

I am a SAHM and I do what needs to be done here at home. When my dh works days and the kids are in school I am alone and sometimes I do slack off and do things at the very last minute...lol
I just feel that I do a better job when I am quickly doing it...If that makes any sense...lol

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:58 AM on Feb. 14, 2012 in Home & Garden

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Sounds like he doesn't want you to rush through housework & things.. maybe he thinks you aren't doing a good job by rushing.

Answer by SuperrMommyy at 10:59 AM on Feb. 14, 2012
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As long as it's getting done,who cares. Tell him to stop micro-managing

Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:01 AM on Feb. 14, 2012
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Tell him if he doesn't like how you clean, he can do it himself.

Answer by Simplicity3 at 11:04 AM on Feb. 14, 2012
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I'd think that was an invitation to shove my foot up his ass.

Answer by maecntpntz219 at 11:11 AM on Feb. 14, 2012
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He's dissappointed that he works all day while you sit on your ass.

Answer by Anonymous at 11:18 AM on Feb. 14, 2012 (hidden) + expand

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You probably just work better under pressure. See, women can multi task & men cannot. He just probably sees you buzzing around a lot when he is home & just wants you to rest & hang out with him when he is home. Well, I hope that's the case LOL! Otherwise tell him to go blow it out his ass! Have a great day!

Answer by ILovemyPaulie at 11:23 AM on Feb. 14, 2012
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Since it's V-day, I'm giving your husband the benefit of doubt, and agreeing with the PP. So, quickly get things done earlier today so, you can hang out with him tonight.

Answer by 3libras at 11:30 AM on Feb. 14, 2012
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If he's anything at all like my husband, and he probably is, he meant that you should have everything done now when he gets home, so that you can spend that time with him.

Answer by NannyB. at 11:35 AM on Feb. 14, 2012
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If I didnt homeschool I and hubby both agree I should run a buisness from hm like make bows or run an in home daycare cause that would b such a waist of time imo to just stay hm all day, theres only so much to do. I guess I would feel useless but thats just me.

Answer by HmschoolingMom at 12:06 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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I am exactly like you OP... LOL... I am a SAHGM (stay at home grandma) and dh is gone in the field 3-5 days a wk (work)
and grandson (11) in school all day and I am home enjoying peace and quiet ...lol... and I LOVE it..
Dh doesn't say a thing, house work is done when needed laundry is done 2x's wkly, I do most home repairs and
a outdoor garden.. I maintain the home period... but I also have A LOT of free time for myself ...
You need to ask your dh what he meant and then the two of you can fix it IF there is really anything to FIX...

Answer by gmasboy at 12:59 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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