Okay, here's the deal. Me and my husband have been married for a year and a half. I got married when I was 18. For one I think I was too young. And I'm starting to feel we are growing apart. We no longer have anything in common other than our son and we are constantly arguing about every little thing. I'm leaning towards ending it, but I'm not too sure if it;s the right choice. We have good days and bad ones...the bad ones are really bad and are happening more frequently. He frightens me when he gets really angry. I'm not sure how to break the news to him. And I just recently found out that a few months ago when he forced me to have sex with him and laughly said "u didn't think I raped you did you?!" He actually raped me. He lied and tried to talk me into thinking something else. Please give me a way to break the news and to tell if it's the right choice.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:17 AM on Jan. 18, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by lisa_ann_p at 12:23 AM on Jan. 18, 2009
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Answer by Kari_Noelle at 12:42 AM on Jan. 18, 2009
Wow sister this is a tough situation to be in and I am sorry to hear about the rape. Yes, you can be raped by your husband although he may have thought that this was more roll play than anything set boundaries up now. Let him know NO IS NO! Also make up a pro's and con's list and "rate" your relationship. This may remind you why you married in the 1st place. You are very young but this is the path that you have chosen as an adult and not to be to harsh you have a child now that needs you both. Please get couples counseling and try to work on things I have been married for almost 6 years now and I must tell you that if your plan B is to just end it all, then that is what will happen. Learn now the steps to make relationships last and best of luck to you!
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