Is there any "tips" on getting out of a relationship that not good for you?! I just would like to know how so many women do it and actually stick to their word

If you know it's a toxic relationship and there's no hope of recovery (this part is important!), then JUST DO IT. Yes it will be hard, yes it might hurt, but yes, life will go on.
Just make the decision and do it.

I knew it was bad, but even more I knew it was bad for my kids. I never, ever want anything/anyone to hurt my kids, so that made it easy. Just make a plan, and do it. I didn't find it hard to stick to my word at all.

i am going through a divorce right now and rough but i know I will be doing the best thing for me and my girls. If you want to leave you can and just stick to your guns. Do not let him sweet talk your or get you scared to do what you want to do. Just do it if the right thing for you and your family and trust me you will not go back if the relationship is that bad.

I was young when I got pregnant. The father of my son started drinking more and more until he no longer desired to work or help in any way. I saw that he was getting out of control and that he did not take being a father seriously so on night after he was out drinking all night while I was taking care of our child I packed up all of my belongings and left for my mother's house. I never stepped foot in that house again. I filed for child custody and child support the next day because I knew that it needed to be taken care of. I found a job and paid my mom to watch my son while also saving for a place to live. It was really hard, I didn't get to buy anything for myself for about a year and a half but I got an apartment, enrolled in school and now 3 years later I have a home for my son and I and a car paid off and as far as my son's father, he missed out on a great child and woman. Never look back, listen to your gut. Good Luck.

You've gotten excellent advice here.

are you married or just dating?
do you live together?
do you have a child with him?

all of the above, its so hard but just leave.

contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233)