I read something my husband wrote that I shouldnt have, what do I do?

I would definitely wonder what was up, if I were you?


Just look at it this way... if he saw you having a sex-related conversation with someone you had a sexual relationship with, what would he do?

uhmmm, if you don't like it when he cheats on you, I would address it.
I would be upset with any kind of communication from someone who has been causing trouble in your relationship.

honestly if it was ME, I would confront him...my hubby and I don't have each others passwords...because we trust each other...if it upset you, then it's gonna just build up and bother you to no end...you will become angry. Not that's it's any of my business, but why is he friends with his ex on FB?? There's no way in hell that would be ok with me....and that has nothing to do with trust...but how would your husband feel if you were chatting with an ex boyfriend?? That's the way I look at it...if it's ok for him to do it, is it ok for you too?? I would ask him that and see if it doesn't strike a nerve...he needs to know that's not ok. and by the way, he has NO right to criticize you for "snooping" if he's having conversations like that with an ex...just sayin

wow, you sound so calm? I would be flipped out and waiting the minute he walked in the door...no married man should be doing that - Facebook noting but problems.

ask him if it would be cheating if you did it with a guy??? honestly, they have to be put in that exact scenario to even get it sometimes...but yes, in my opinion it's cheating...Dr. Phil said this morning...his definition of cheating, is "anything you would not do with your SO standing right there."

it needs to be addressed, and dealt with...period...even FB needs to be deleted if necessary...