I AM HURT

Earlier i was arguing with my husband, he was getting on my nerve so much to the point i called him a "DOG". he turned around and told me "YOUR MOTHER" you guys just dont know what i felt that moment, both hubby and i haven't been working this is the woman that puts food on our table. I recently gave birth to our 3 weeks old baby that woman was in the delivery room when he decided not to be, this is unforgivable how do i deal with this guys?

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:15 PM on Feb. 14, 2012 in Relationships

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Ok, are you saying your mom is helping out?

Answer by Michigan-Mom74 at 8:17 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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I think we all say things in an argument that we shouldn't. Sounds like there is a lot of stress in your relationship right now. You got angry he got angry, you called him a name he called you Your Mother. Try to find a time and place free from stress, then the two of you should talk and work through these things.

Answer by meooma at 8:19 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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Did he mean it? Does he really have a probelm with your mom? Or was it one of those impulse comebacks?

Either way, it was wrong. BUT!!! So were you for calling him a Dog in the first place. It'd like complaining when he slams a door, but you slammed one first. Its not right, no...but you were BOTH in the wrong.

I would have a talk with him and APPOLOGIZE FIRST for calling him a a name. But then tell him how much you value your mother, and how much it hurt you, even if he didnt mean it.

Answer by mlmkjw at 8:19 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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Sorry, I'm confused. What happened exactly and what is going on?

Answer by janderson595 at 8:20 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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I am confused also.

Answer by DJDNY at 8:30 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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both of you need to stop the name calling now. try and pull together as a team.

Answer by couponluv72 at 8:31 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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I think you should tell him that it hurt you. He shouldn't have brought your mother into and argument that involved you and him. I think some apoligies need to be exchanged starting with him first.

Answer by MommyMJean at 8:34 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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What did he say about your mother? I don't quite understand.

Answer by Melbornj at 8:50 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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So, it's okay for you to call him a name but you get butt hurt when he fires back?

Answer by Anonymous at 8:53 PM on Feb. 14, 2012

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Sounds like he made a "your momma" joke about her mother being a dog, and it was completely inappropriate given what the mom is doing for them...hope that is right and clears up some confusion.

I would tell him that if he thinks your mother deserves to be treated so poorly, that he can get his ass out of her house, get her food out of his mouth, and start paying her for picking up his slack!

Answer by Mom-2-3-Girlz at 8:56 PM on Feb. 14, 2012
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