Nothing for V-day - Am I wrong to be hurt?

Well, what did you get him?

If you feel unappreciated you need to let him know. Did he does he do anything else to make you feel special and appreciated?

I agree with JeremysMom what did you buy or give him that was SPECIAL today? It is better to give then it is to receive. HONESTLY, I've been married for nearly 12 years and we've never given each other anything for Valentines Day. We choose to honor the Saint the day is named after vs. the hallmark day it has become. TO ME, it's really just another day: we wished each other happy Valentine's Day and the kids made us some cards, but other then that it was nothing super special.

Happy Valentines Day !!     :-)    I send you two special bouquets.    We didn't exchange gifts this year.      It is just a holiday that has become over commercialized and materialistic like many of the others.  It is not about the gifts,  but the loved ones in our lives.   If you want flowers,  buy them for yourself.   That way you can get what you want, enjoy them and be happy.    Not all guys are good at buying them.   

Eh...Valentines day is a rediculous idea if you ask me.WHY do we need a specific day to show love? I have been with hubby for 20 yrs and he has only gotten me flowers once-because his freind dragged him to the store and told him to buy them. Honestly- I think flowers are a waste of money anyway-they just die.
Does he show you he cares at other times or in other ways? I think that's what matters...not this stupid holiday ;)

First, I am sorry that you are hurting. Second, I don't think that you are wrong to be upset. If a man cares for a womna, he tries to do special things to make her happy and to show appreciation. Seems like he is taking you for granted. Also, you explained to him that you were upset that he did not buy you flowers and still he did not get you anything.
Think about getting a new hobby or spend more time with friends so that you can distance yourself a little. Hopefully he will miss you and appreciate what he has in you. Make him work on winning you again.
Hope things work out for you. Hugs.

Every guy should know that on this day in particular, it's the one "given day" that a dude should do something nice for their gal. Also, most guys do realize the girls are the ones who get the goods on this day. That is not to say you shouldn't do something nice for him too but...c'mon! I'm sure you do nice things all the time for your dh so I think it's insensitive, especially after you had a chat about it. i had a talk with mine also complaining that we rarely celebrate things anymore (as we do most things only for the kids) but that kinda makes the year long and a little dull. Maybe skip any special things/touches/dinners, etc that you do and when he asks, you tell him that if he likes those things he can give as good as he gets. Hang in there. Happy Valentine's Day!

Feelings are never right nor wrong. It's what you do with them that matters.

The fact that you got nothing for Valentine's day signifies little. The fact that he did nothing immediately after you BEGGED him to is a HUGE RED FLAG. Marriage counseling, IMMEDIATELY. Go yourself if he won't go with you.

I got nothing either (because we are in different countries due to his work). He just wished me. I'm okay with that because he's healthy and happy and that's my v-day gift! :)

I don't think you're wrong to be hurt or upset. Everyone knows that on this day, gifts are supposed to be exchanged. Yes, couples need to show love and affection all year round blah blah blah. BUT, he knew you already needed some attention and still hasn't done anything about it. That's messed up. I would be upset too.

Last year my BF didn't get me anything for Christmas, V-day, or my birthday. I made a big deal about it cuz come on, three holidays back to back. We broke up and then we recently got back together because he has improved a lot on his relationship skills and is actually trying to show he cares. This year he got me a $60 gift card to my favorite bookstore because he knows I like to read.