Divorce

Well he has no right to tell you to get rid of the baby. It is your choice. It is hard to move on when they turn into jack asses, because it is so confusing to see them go from one person to another. But you will be fine. See a lawyer and start the process of divorce, set up whatever child support you will expect once the baby is born. Normally with new born babies they dont allow overnights especially if the baby is breastfed, so that likely wont be an issue. Good luck.

Do you know what happened during that day? Something must have. I wonder if someone told him something about you, or if he made some kind of discovery that caused him to behave the way he has. I would be doing everything I could to find out some answers and I would not be accepting this as the final decision on my marriage. Maybe I'm more of a fighter than other women, but I would not be filing for any divorce. If he wants it, let him be the one to get it. In the meantime, I would be looking for ways to put a stop to this madness. There's more going on here than meets the eye, and if I were you, I would want to know what that is. Remember that while women openly complain about their husbands, most men don't openly complain about their wives, so I would probably ask him why he suddenly got fed up with me and decided he couldn't take it any more. That's just the way I am. I would want to know the truth.

Im with nannyB. What happend? that is just crazy. You really need to have a talk with him, and pronto!

Forgive me if I misremember but are you the same OP who was abused as a child and have concerns regarding your husband and your child?

You need to get to the bottom of this and fast. No offence intended but ... is it possible that he was (is?) seeing someone else and she gave him an ultimatum that day? I just can't think of any other reason for someone to do a relationship about turn in so little time (and believe me I REALLY hope I'm wrong!). Whatever happens, make an appointment for counselling for both of you (if he'll go) or just you (if he won't). IT will be of great help sorting out where you go from here.

I wish you didn't have to go through this. (((((HUGS)))))

Please try to work it out ~

Please find out what is going on.....and though it may not be the best thing for him...FOR YOU IT MUST...YOU ARE BLESSED WITH a baby!  fight for his rights!