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Is there a specific person that you notice you never agree with or like there answers?

Even if they dont answer all your questiosn , but the answers they do post, you just dont agree with them? Or even there answers on another post. Like you really would clash with them in real life probably.
Do you think it has anuything it do with parts of the country you were raised it? Like do you think people in the south handle or do things different from peopel up north?

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Asked by Anonymous at 10:58 AM on Feb. 15, 2012 in About CafeMom

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  • yes there are people that it happens with but I chaalk it up to all of us having a different mindset and ideas of how things should be. I accept it and try to respect their opinions.

    I am from the South and live in the North- its not a area thing, there are just as many people with different opinions in both places :)
    luvmygrandbaby

    Answer by luvmygrandbaby at 11:06 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • I have found a few staunch vegetarians and organic food eaters here that feel they have to impose their life-style on you. Some all out breast feeders are always nasty whether they are here on CM or out in public. Just because I didn't or couldn't breast feed doesn't make me a bad mom.
    robinkane

    Answer by robinkane at 11:09 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • I like to see all the different types of answers and try to see all points of view. Not every person on here is going to agree on every topic. I haven't actually really noticed anyone in paticular that our answers always clash. There are times where some of my favorite people on here and I do not see eye to eye on a topic and that is ok. I still value their opinions and try to see where they are coming from. I don't think it is an area thing, As luvmygrandbaby said...there just as many people with different opinions in all areas.
    amber1330

    Answer by amber1330 at 11:13 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • there's*
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    Answer by amber1330 at 11:14 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • Could be several reasons why one might clash more with one than another. Raised not only in different parts of the country or even a totally different country all together but a different generation, educational levels and so forth. I've noticed that there are some mums on here that seem to be on just certain boards so my ideas on those certain topics may always clash with them but if I were to see them on a different board every once and a while offering a different point of view - I might be surprised to find that I feel the same way and may even agree with them and look at them differently. I feel that if I were to meet them IRL than perhaps I would be able to explain myself better and/or they would see what I'm saying differently. Sometimes it's awfully hard to express ones self properly to where others see your point over the internet. It's hard to convey facial expressions and tone over the computer.
    Ladybugkisses76

    Answer by Ladybugkisses76 at 11:14 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • Not anyone I can think of,, I disagree with almost all my cafe mom friends once in awhile,, but nothing or nobody stands out in particular except the anon lunch lady who stalked me for about a year,,lol
    kimigogo

    Answer by kimigogo at 11:16 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • PS- i will say that I don't think it is the part of the country, but more a maturity and age thing,, when I read questions about my new boyfriend hits my kids, or is spending the night,, I tend to get a bit nutty,,
    kimigogo

    Answer by kimigogo at 11:17 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • haha...@ robinkane..i was thinking the same thing, maybe same one?? lol..that'd be funny.

    having said that, there have been a few times, very few times, i agreed with her. LOL!
    dullscissors

    Answer by dullscissors at 11:20 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • Yes -but it doesn't bother me unless the person is constantly mean-or puts people down or that sort of thing
    charlotsomtimes

    Answer by charlotsomtimes at 11:25 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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  • Every person on my friends list has at least one issue where we absolutely do not agree. Agreeing with someone about everything sounds more like being a sycophant. Similarly, disagreeing with someone about everything sounds more like holding a grudge and not actually paying attention to what they've said.
    NotPanicking

    Answer by NotPanicking at 11:28 AM on Feb. 15, 2012

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