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Any other moms out there don't trust there kids alone with their father?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:57 AM on Jan. 18, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Nope I trust my dh with our kids, if I didnt, we wouldnt be married.

    Answer by gemgem at 12:00 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

  • No.

    Answer by Tetona at 12:13 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

  • I agree w/ gemgem. And not to sound prying or insensitive, why are you asking this ?


    Answer by Anonymous at 12:14 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

  • I'm thinking this question is meant for divorced women or women no longer living with the father of their kids who don't feel like they trust their ex with the children.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 12:19 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

  • lol hell no. I would never had made babies with someone I didn't trust unconditionally.

    Answer by teri4lance at 12:20 PM on Jan. 18, 2009


    Answer by KALYNNANDJOSEPH at 12:28 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

  • I agree with the other posters, if I didn't trust my DH with our kids alone then I wouldn't be with him.

    Answer by sammiesmom2000 at 1:15 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

  • I feel that way about my DD's father. Before we had our daughter things were great between us, and I seen him around other children and he was fine. But when we had a baby, he was totally clueless and after awhile I got stuck doing everything... There are just things that he doesn't get that you literally have to leave a list for him to understand. Some guys just don't understand all it takes raising a kid. especially a baby. How old are your children? If they are younger I can understand, the potty training, feedings etc, can sometimes go right over a mans head. my DD's fathers stops over all the time to see her, it's not that he doesn't love her, and try, but as far as feedings and naps, etc... he just doesn't get it. So I don't leave him alone with her for more than 2-3 hours when I know the feedings are taken care of and naps, and things like that. (she's 13 months)

    Answer by xxhazeldovexx at 1:16 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

  • I didn't trust my son's bio-father. (He would leave moldy bottles on the floor and my son would try to drink them when he visited, the final straw was coming to pick up my son -- seeing him playing with a plug in an electric socket, and my ex had been too busy looking at porn to stop him. After that visits were supervised only.) Fortunately he signed away his paternity. I do trust my husband 100%. He's an awesome father.

    Answer by Serafyna at 1:43 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

  • No but I know a woman who is like that. She has always been afraid to leave him with their kids because of his impatience. She said he yells and throws things. They are about 12 and 14 now and she still feels the same way. I think part of it is that she is a control freak and she wants to think she is indispensable. She is quite impressed with herself. Yea, he's responsible for himself but a wife can enable her husband to be "helpless" and "incompetent".

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:05 PM on Jan. 18, 2009

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