I had thought that my stepchildren all knew that the Love of Christ stays with you to make you a better person. ( To follow Christ/ in a likeness ).
And that Marriage was included and that Loving some one meant at times you disagreed ( Agree to disagree style.) But still Love that person and pray for it to get better for you both. But it appears in their late 20's such truly awful things are said (after 17 years marriage & financer to all needs)).
It appears my Husband and I are pushed to shut the door on anger. Because now it seems that their hurtful past all of a sudden is just US who did anything.
This is 2 years after a letter saying we were sorry about anything done (but we were human) and we love them and go from here. ( No serious or sexual abuse or mental games)2 years later we get an "I hate you letter. From no where.????
Asked by Anonymous at 3:51 PM on Jan. 18, 2009 in Adult Children (18+)
Answer by gemgem at 3:52 PM on Jan. 18, 2009
Answer by NovemberLove at 9:56 PM on Jan. 19, 2009
Answer by BJoan at 9:21 AM on Jan. 21, 2009
I agree totally with novemberlove, A twenty something who is not only over lectured, but has YOUR beliefs stuffed down their throat, is a very angry twenty something. They are adults who ,like every one of us make mistakes. I'm not sure if you are referring to the Bible? Do they not believe as you do? Why would you want them to? They need to be let go,My parents were happy that I was a different person than then.
Answer by jblueeyes228 at 3:24 PM on Jan. 23, 2009
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