I am concerned for my husbands health. I don't know what to do

My hubby keeps having this issue and I keep pleading for him to go to the doctor. He refuses to go. What am I supposed to do? Drug him? Knock him out and drag him into someone's office? I have begged him to see a urologist

In the past 3 years this has happened a few times.

First time: There was blood in his semen. It was quick and he assumed it was from the rough sex

Second time: It was with his urine. He would pee and feel like he didn't completely empty his bladder so he assumed it was a UTI. He took some AZO and drank lots of cranberry juice. The issue went away in like 4 days.

(BTW he is a HEAVY coke drinker. He can go through a 20 can box of cokes in about 3 days. He also drinks about 2-3 6 Hour Stackers A DAY!! He's been doing this for well over a year now. )

Third time: Today. Last night he felt some pain in his right teste(first time this has happened). I gave him aleve and a warm compress. He said he felt fine this morning. Says there was some mild discomfort when he peed this morning. He masturbated and said there was no pain, no discomfort and no blood. Hours later when he went to pee he noticed blood in his boxers. It was enough to stain his boxers pretty thoroughly. Between peeing this morning and the next time he peed, BLOOD came out!!

He didn't even feel anything. I'm concerned for him. I tried googling his symtoms but I cannot find anything. I express my concerns. I cry and beg for him to see a doctor, he shrugs it off and says because it isn't an every day occurrence that its not a big deal.


He has NONE of the following:
Back pain
Abdominal pain or cramping
Fever
Chills
Constant painful urination
Pain in his perineum
Discharge

**No sure if this matters or not: He is over 30 and white.

Can someone please point me in the right direction? I don't know what else to do

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