My daughters father and I have known one another for 9 years. When I became pregnant, he didn't want me to keep the baby. He's never disrespected me, so I didn't see this coming. Anyhow, he opted to file a false police report against me...stating that I threatened to kill him. I had a report filed and had to go back and forth to court. They made a deal that if I didn't "bother" him for a certain amount of time, it would disappear for good. His mother and siblings, who know me, don't know anything about the baby. I'm family oriented and I feel that even if he continues to deny her, her family should have the option of at least meeting her. If I choose to do that, it will be without his acknowledgment and after this false crap disappears. I love my daughter so much and I really would like her grandmother to know her, especially because my mother is no longer alive and I grew up not knowing either of my grandparents.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:10 PM on Jan. 18, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by cornflakegirl3 at 4:19 PM on Jan. 18, 2009
Answer by gemgem at 4:12 PM on Jan. 18, 2009
I would definitely wait tell this false police report blows over. You don't want to get in more trouble.
I think it is a good idea, if your DD know both sides of her family.
Answer by louise2 at 4:14 PM on Jan. 18, 2009
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