The other day my husband and I were talking and he started talking about this chick he was TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH before he met me... it sorta hurt! He was talking about her like he missed her and wanted to see her again and all this. Not friendly at all... totally an "I'm still in love with her" kinda thing.
I trust him, but it sorta hurt! How do you deal with that? I dn't wanna make a big deal out of it by fighting with him or telling him to shut up... but it totally sucked dude....
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Answer by kabbot01 at 7:49 AM on Jan. 19, 2009
We have a no ex rule... we avoid talking about them unless the other asks a question or something like that. The way I see it, is they are an ex for a reason. Ex as in use to be... past... it didn't work. But talking about them can definitely put some images in someones head and hurt some feelings. If I were you I would just tell him how it made you feel without being defensive about it. Just tell him calmly it made you feel real uncomfortable. It won't hurt to talk about it as long as you don't blame and do it calmly. :)
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