Dh and I have 3 kids. After our last I wanted one more. He didn't. Then for the loooongest time neither of us wanted another one. I got an IUD and we scheduled him for a Vasectomy. Well, long story short, I'm now possibly facing a hysterectomy due to medical problems and we cancelled his V because we weren't sure we were done. I go back and forth all the time. He's basically always saying it's completely up to me now. He will be happy either way.
Well last night he whispered in my ear that he really wants to have another baby. He wants a boy badly. I do to. But I really don't know that I want another child. So now he wants one and I don't.
Anyone else's hubby want one more and they don't want any? Or is it opposite in your house? Or do you both agree on what to do?
Answer by celticreverie at 12:33 PM on Jan. 19, 2009
We have three. I had a tubal after our youngest and it was a mutual decision. But more importantly, your health comes first. But IMO, the more children you have, it makes a little harder to give them each the quality time they need and to find a balance. JMO.
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