Do you feel its necessary to have affection in a marriage/relationship to SHOW love. My husband and I disagree. He feels a kiss or two a day sex every once in a blue moon is enough. I do not. I need to be hugged, kissed, cuddled, hold hands, sex more often than every 2-4 weeks! Even once a week would be ok. Do you agree? Do you need to be SHOWN love as much as being told your loved in order to believe a person feels it for you?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:34 PM on Jun. 19, 2008 in Relationships
Answer by ReneeK3 at 4:40 PM on Jun. 19, 2008
I personally don't need to be shown love constantly on top of being told I am loved. My husband and I now have two small children and aside from a quick peck, hug, or a squeeze of the hand not much else is shown. If we get a chance to cuddle we try to make the most of it. However, my preferred method of being loved is for him to do a task without being asked. Those small moments mean alot to me.
Seeing as you have already spoken to your husband about your need for more attention and he isn't in agreement maybe you should take some time aside when the two of you can talk and work on a compromise. Before you talk you might want to write down your reasons for added attention and be as specific as possible. Being prepared to talk to your husband might let him know how serious this topic is to you and he may be more willing to consider your suggestions. Good luck!
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