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how can i get pregnant?

i have been trying to get pregnant for 5 yrs now. i have no kids and i would love the experiance to be pregnant and to know what a mothers love is like! i would like this more than anything else. please help me on how to conceive a gift of life!

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ilovejamie

Asked by ilovejamie at 4:26 PM on Jan. 19, 2009 in Trying to Conceive

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  • if you have been trying to get pregnant for that long i would see a dr and they can run test there may be a simple underlying problem that has caused you not to be able to get pregnant. good luck and i hope things go well for you.
    Mommy2B04

    Answer by Mommy2B04 at 4:28 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • Have you seen a Dr. to rule out any medical reasons why you're not getting pregnant? If not, you should do that first. After that it could just be a waiting game. Best wishes. I hope you get your heart's desire.

    BlessedMommy64

    Answer by BlessedMommy64 at 4:30 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • Since you have been trying so longI would advise going to a fertility specialist. Some people need a little help. I had to go on Clomid and after 3 months on the medication we were blessed. If you don't want medical help try tracking your ovulations. I loved http://www.ivillage.com/fertilityplanner but you may also like www.fertiltyfriend.com
    Kellyboot

    Answer by Kellyboot at 4:30 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • This is a really broad question. With none of the details as to why you're experiencing trouble getting pregnant, all I can say is you need to be seen by a doctor. If you've been trying for one year (or 6 months if you're over 30) with no success, you're considered infertile. That doesn't mean it will never happen, but you may need help. There are an enormous amount of factors that could be invovled and some of them are easily solved once you know what they are. From someone who has been there, good luck. *Also, giving birth is not the only way to know what a mother's love is like :)
    MommyAddie

    Answer by MommyAddie at 4:32 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • Have you talked to your doctor about this? If not, then now would be the time to do so. 5 years is way too long to try without discussing it with a doctor. Good luck.
    AlliO2

    Answer by AlliO2 at 4:41 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • You have to see a doctor. Your doc would order all kinds of tests to determine why you can't conceive. Then based from the finding, either they'll correct the problem or refer you to fertility specialist. Do it now though, the longer you wait the harder it'd get. The older you get the less egg you'll produce.
    erlsk

    Answer by erlsk at 6:17 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • sorry about this but...have you tried different positions durning intercourse?you may need to elevate your body.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:21 AM on Jan. 20, 2009

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