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Men's Sexual Stamina

My new boyfriend has a hard time staying aroused. Does anyone else's have this problem? And does anyone know of a good fix?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 10:04 PM on Jan. 19, 2009 in Relationships

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Answers (14)
  • Try REALLY taking control one night. Tell him tonight is all about him and him only. Maybe if he knows your main goal is to please him it might help him get over it if that is the problem. Or, tell him things that you really like, so that he knows exactly what to do. Sorry, that's all I got. Hope you find something that works!
    lilbit837

    Answer by lilbit837 at 10:18 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • No, never..
    Ummm...How about you ask him what turns him on??
    Liyoness

    Answer by Liyoness at 10:05 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • How old is he? Is he on any medications? Does he have any medical conditions? All of these can play a role in this kind of a problem.
    coala

    Answer by coala at 10:05 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • Don't have the problem here.......... but there are tons of creams, and sexual aides at the adult stores that can help him with his ED. Does he have high blood pressure? Because if he does that could explain the erectile dysfunction he is experiencing.
    MyMayBaby_Chloe

    Answer by MyMayBaby_Chloe at 10:05 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • My SO only has that problem when we have had sex 3 times in one day.. then he just gets tired. Try going a little longer without it? Or was this the first time?
    lilbit837

    Answer by lilbit837 at 10:06 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • My best friend went through this recently with her new BF. She finally confronted him about it and his main issue was that he was so incredibly scarred by comments his ex had made to him that he needed help getting past it. That of course could be a completely different case, but talking about it could be the key to solving the problem.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:06 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • I know what turns him on and its not that. He just looses it.... No medical issues either. He has no problem eith it when he's going down on me though. Sorry to be so blunt.
    KlieneMutter

    Answer by KlieneMutter at 10:07 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • Have you talked to him about it?
    lilbit837

    Answer by lilbit837 at 10:10 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • We've talked about it and he doesn't know what it could be other than his odd turn ons, but even with those in place, so to speak, it happens. He tried a juice the last time we were together.
    Didn't help...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:10 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

  • New boyfriend? Maybe he's just not that into you. If he was, he might be like the energizer bunny and keep going, and going...
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:11 PM on Jan. 19, 2009

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