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Love my dh but he lies or has lied alot about money in the past.. Two of our cars have been repoed in the 10 yrs we have been married and both times he told me that he was making the car payments. So its been a year now that it thought things were getting better and NO MORE LIES. But i woke up this morning and our water was shut off. I was under the impression that our landlord covered our water portion of bills. This is what i have been told for the last year anyways.. I call my dh say whats up the the water is off. He hangs up says he is going to call the landlord..How many lies did he have to say to keep this one lie going? Makes me want to cry, Well i am crying it sucks to not know what my says is true or NOT. Well 10 min LATER he calls backs saying that he has LIED AGAIN. And we have been responsible for the water the entire time. And that he had thought we had an extention but i guess it didnt go through. He will got pay the bill now..WTF? I feel betrayed i know this sounds lame but for the last year i have thought our bills were xyz. When really they were xyz and the water bill. His reasoning behind this is that he DIDNT WANT me stressing about doing the laundry or taking my daily baths that i enjoy. This makes sense to me but he always lies to protect me when he is really hurting me in the end. VENTING and really sad today:(Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 3:02 PM on Feb. 27, 2012 in Relationships
Answer by rhianna1708 at 3:05 PM on Feb. 27, 2012
Answer by Mrs_Harsh at 3:05 PM on Feb. 27, 2012
Answer by BrawnwynII at 3:05 PM on Feb. 27, 2012
Looks like you either need to take over the physical payment of all the bills or leave him... good luck either way!!
Answer by Crafty26 at 3:06 PM on Feb. 27, 2012
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