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He got about $6,000 back but he owes me over $20,000 in back child support. We have 2 kids together haven't been together since I was pregnant with the youngest, 4 years ago and he only pays child support 3 months out of every year at most. 2 years ago, he got remarried and started taking care of his wife's kids and they had one together but still, didn't regularly pay child support for his own children. Now his wife called me saying I am taking from their kids because they promised their kids a trip to Disney World that they can now not take because I got their income tax return. She also says that I shouldn't take it because I don't need it (which, who couldn't use extra money, yeah, I get my bills paid and we have what we need but why should I give up money that I could give my kids extras with so that their kids can have extras?) I told her maybe she should explain to them that the money went to his kids because he promised to take care of them when he decided to TRY to have a baby (both of them were planned, I didn't know when I got pregnant with the second one that he was cheating on me) and he hasn't been doing that. Now they are really mad because my DD told them that we are going to Disney World. I swear, I didn't plan it like that but I had planed to take them anyway before I knew I was getting his refund too. I am trying not to rub it in her face, but honestly, it feels good, for so long, I had to watch my ex take care of her kids while not helping with ours and now my kids are getting what they deserve.Answer Question
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