My husbnad came home from Iraq and I was very happy until I found out that he has being cheating on me with a co-worker. She is also married. I only found out because she has being calling him and sending e-mails. I was curious so i checked his e-mail and there it was a very erotic e-mail reminiscing about their time together. I'm so hurt I waited for him and was faithful. We have a 2 yr old son. I confronted him and told him I want a divorce. and what he said was that I was a selfish b.... that most guys and girls in the military "confort" each other to help each other deal with what's going on over there. since obviously we can't help them from home. I don't think I can get past this but I don't want to turn my back on my hero. Is it selfish of me to want a divorce? How do you deal with your spouses "conforting" others?
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