I cannot stand the fact that my SO has an ex-wife and son. He left the state they all lived in to be with me now I am pregnant, due in March, and she has been blasting us with insane child support. So bad, we cannot even pay rent!! I have asked him to take care of it, get it lowered or something but he won't. Then he tells me the other night that it hurts him, i don't seem interested in his kid. Well, honestly, I'm not. All the money issues and her calling asking him to go half on this and half on that when we can barely EAT is making me crazy! I honestly want to leave and just raise this baby on my own...I have done it before and leave the drama behind me. He is a good guy and means well, I just don't know how much of this I am cut out for. I am 36 so I am not young and naive...I could take care of myself and my 2 kids, but I don't want to hurt him unnecessarily.
Am I wrong? is this just something I need to put up with?
Asked by Anonymous at 3:13 PM on Jan. 21, 2009 in Relationships
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