i have a girlfriend who i used to go out with often. i go out less now, but every time i do go out, i go out with her... or do things like paint pottery or shop... point is, i treat her like a best friend. lately i feel our relationship is uneven. if she's invited to an event, she hasn't been extending the invitation. she hangs out with another "woman" (who doesn't have custody of her kid) and this girl doesn't really like me... but we 've been friends for ten years!!! i know i need to let this go and concentrate on my kid and full time job (she has no kids and is no longer married and doesn't have a full time job.) but it hurts my feelings. i am always there for her, it's not coming back around.
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Answer by samurai_chica at 4:54 PM on Jan. 21, 2009
I had a BFF since we were 11. She got divorced just as my DH and I moved back to town after his time in the Army. She and I were pretty close (we were SILs for a short time, she was married to my DH's stepbrother :D) And when I came back I thought it would be the same, but she wanted to go party and date! And I was married, going to school. Our lives were different. She's married now and has a little girl, but we're still not close. We chat online some, but it's just superficial stuff. I had another friend later, she was like a sister to me, but she was killed 2005. I really haven't had luck with friends as an adult. I think you should cut your losses and try to find a friend you have more in common with. GL :o)
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 4:54 PM on Jan. 21, 2009
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