we have a verbal agreement that our son is not to be around anyone without approval. i have a order in for full custody as of monday march 12th, and this hapened on tuesday the 13th. he lied to me and said she wouldnt be flying in till wed the 14th and he wanted to see our sno before she got here. but he allowed her to hold him and calm him down when he couldnt, showing that he cant take care of him alone.i am very angry with the situation and dont know what to do!!! please help:/Answer Question
I don't have any ex's to deal with but it seems to me that if this woman is going to be a part of the ex's life....at some point she'll be a part of your son's life as well. I think it takes a lot of strength and courage from all parties involved to be able to care of a child(ren) when the living arrangements/parents are split. That being said, if she was able to help calm your son, maybe she cares for him too. I understand that you're mad he didn't tell you that she was there but it sounds like she helps and IMO.....kids need all the support they can get growing up these days. I'm sure that's not what you wanted to hear but I see a lot of children being put in the middle of break ups to have leverage over one parent because of anger and resentment. It's only the kids that pay in the long run.
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