I resent my fiancees son. Im not sure why, but i think it might be because when i agreed to help watch him, before he deployed, i wound up taking care of him 24/7, while his dad sat on the couch and played on the comp. His birth mom ignores himand treats him like crap. i really want to figure this out before it gets out of hand and i ruin the relationship. I wanna be good to him, i dont want to evr treat him like she does........any advice...if u are gonna be a b**ch, dont answer.Answer Question
Answer by TheDiva320 at 9:25 PM on Jan. 21, 2009
Answer by melody77 at 9:39 PM on Jan. 21, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:43 PM on Jan. 21, 2009
You are a good person for asking this. Think of your fiancee's son as an extension of him. By treating him good, you are treating your fiancee well and respecting the commitment you made to him to take care of his child before his deployment.
At first a child can be overwhelming, but, if you start to see taking care of this child as a way to see the world through the eyes of child with all its beauty, you will come to enjoy the experience. Do not hesitate to ask others in your community help if you become overwhelmed and need a break. Best of luck.
Answer by Tetona at 10:07 PM on Jan. 21, 2009
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