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I have kinship (family) foster adopted one child and am in the process with his baby brother. I have a very good relationship with their first Mom. Weworked in out with the court for her to visit with the boys every week.
It is time for her to sign the relinguishment papers and someone has scared her into thinking the state could move him out of our home if they get a wild hair to. I know technically they could, but what is the likelihood they'd move him from a all ready state approved home with his brother?
I feel it is unethical to tell her to sign or not to sign...I think she wants me to. But I told her I would ask you ladies what you think....Information and opinions of those who have been there done that is ok,...I still won't tell her what to do. She needs to make that decision.
(a note: She's wanted this child with his brother from the moment she found out she was pregnant. She even gave him out last name. She cannot parent due to her status with her other children. We have relationships with her and all 4 children)
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