My DD bio dad is not really involved. In the last year he has spent a total of 5 hours with her (mostly in 30 min increments at my house). He either sees her or askes about her on average every 1-3 months. Here is a conversation via test we had last night and now I am unsure what to think or say.
Him: Hey hows lillie doin? sorry I have not been up to see her work has been shi* I have been getting off after her bed time sicne we are merging with oriley"
My response: "I highly doubt you have not had a single min to check on her in almost a whole month. Im not stupid. I pass your work at least twice a day and have only seen you there twice in the last week. If you dont want to step up and be a dad then give up your rights to a man who, is for one, raising her and who WANTS to be her dad. You are just hurting her." (he works less than a mile from our house and my husband wants to adopt her)
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