Niether my ex or i pay for child support. But we are rare, we remained good friends. There have been times that we both borrowed money from eachother. I was a step mom before we divorced, he had 2 kids from a previous marriage. And yes, I did help there mom. As much as i could. She needed it, and when it comes down to it, the most important thing is the children, not there parents. If the parents need help, then so do the kids. That's the way i look at it. I am very compassionate though, the fact that she was my husbands ex meant nothing. She was my step children's mom, & I only wanted the best for her kids, so i wanted the best for her too. She was also the same way with me. It was nice being so helpful, & getting help when needed. Also, my daughters dad will help with anything i ask for concerning our daughter, he is a great dad.
at 11:19 AM on Jan. 22, 2009