Last night I discovered that my hubby was wearing the shirt my son wore for most of the day that he was killed. I wrapped it up along with his jeans, and saved them, because they still smell like him. I was devastated!! Spent the rest of night in my room. I wanted to reign him with blows, I was that upset. How could anyone be that stupid? I know that there is NOTHING that can undo this, that the last thing he wore is now gone from me, but I couldnt even look at him this morning, I was physically sick.
I need to get over this, but I dont know if I can. What's done is done, I feel like phoning him at work and telling him not to come home.
Am I over reacting? Is this not the most bizzare thing ever?!!! Who doesnt know their own childs clothes ?
Needless to say, I am a bloody mess today. My heart is literally aching. I feel like my husband tore another hole in what is left of my heart.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:53 PM on Jan. 22, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Peekalou at 12:56 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by coala at 12:57 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by krazyash023 at 12:57 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by ReneeK3 at 12:58 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by Peekalou at 12:59 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by musikdoll at 1:00 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by mrseum at 1:03 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
I am sorry for your loss. Don't you think your DH was doing it because he is grieving his son. That was a way to be close to his son. Every body grieves in different ways. You should just sit down with your DH and talk about this. Tell him how you feel.
Answer by louise2 at 1:10 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 1:12 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by jodi205 at 1:12 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Next question overall
Do you think offering online childbirth classes and etc. are a good idea?