It really scares me... and the thing is... This isn't a voluntary feeling. Most people think that it's something someone can help but I really can't. I love a woman. I am in love with her and I can't help it. I would be straight if I could. I try to forget her and to love him but... I look at him and there is nothing there anymore. I think it came from my childhood. I had a terrible father which made me tend to find comfort from the same sex. The world saw him as perfect but I knew that he was a bad guy, he hurt my mom and was so mean to me and my brother! But still everyone thought he was perfect. I told myself ( I was a kid ) If thats perfect then thats not what I want. I just can't love a man no matter how hard I try. I can have sex with a man.. and it feels right...but it also feels right with a woman, even more right. OMG. Idk what to do or how to tell anyone!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 2:20 PM on Jan. 22, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by chagenue at 2:24 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by chagenue at 2:25 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by HAUTMAMMA3908 at 2:41 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Well are you bi or a lesbian? You say that you can't love a man...period. So that makes me think you are more a lesbian then bi. Are you only wanting to be with a woman? Just tell them...if your family really loves you unconditionally like they should they will accept it.
Answer by Navymama at 3:01 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 3:10 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by chyna_doll at 3:59 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by stephgood1 at 4:09 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 4:36 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Anon 3:36...How did you have a child with a woman? Wasn't aware that was possible....
Answer by Navymama at 6:09 PM on Jan. 22, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 6:19 PM on Jan. 29, 2009