He is (now) a recovering alcaholic. Verbally abusive sober physically abusive drunk. Things have been good of course, we just got back together at the end of december. but the last week or so we have been at eachothers throats. i have my own issues and struggles (depression, no job, f'd up family, etc). lately he has been so mean making rude comments talking to me like i'm his kid rather than his SO about cleaning, or how i'm spending my time, or what i do with my son. how do you defuse it! how do i not get angry and tell him the things he is saying really f'n piss me off?! other than ignoring him becuase that makes things worse, lol. i'm good at that, trust me. he knows i'm pissed about his running his mouth.
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Things aren't going to change, honey, until YOU change them.
"If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always gotten."
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