I've talked to DD's sperm donor 2x - once to tell him I was prego and once at 3mo prego when he told me to terminate (i told him hell no). I don't know his address or phone number - the only things I know are his bday, previous job, and his myspace page (i'm not his friend I just know he has one) and me and DD are on state aid. I was told that I would be contacted by Child services after DD was born to establish paternity. Never happened. DD is 16mo now and paternity still hasn't been established. I want to establish it and then file for abandonment but what steps do I need to take? I just want it over with so DD and I can move on with him legally out of the picture. How do I get his information so they can find him? Thanks!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:39 AM on Jan. 23, 2009 in General Parenting
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Answer by salexander at 10:05 AM on Jan. 23, 2009
you don't want to get him for abandonment you want him to pay support for 18 years. How can you get pregnant by someone you don't know that well? You find out from friends or whoever where he works or lives and tell DHS his name and they will get him to take a paternity test.
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