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How often do you and your husband / SO have sex?

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:09 PM on Jan. 23, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Between 5-10 times a week, after 10 years and 5 children we still don't take a break Lol.

    Answer by Mummytomore at 3:10 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • kind of personel but whatever we dnt have sex to often im 26 weeks pregnant and its become more of a hassel finding a postion that works for us so needless to say my poor hubby is feeling alittle deprived but hes doing pretty well dealing with it i just keep telling him it will go back to normal when baby is born lol.

    Answer by Mommy2B04 at 3:11 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • if it were up to dh every day. but im tired so hes lucky if its once a week. lol. but i do have times were we would do it 3-4 times a week. ( dh says that was the best week ever lol ) wish i did want it more. at least 2xs a week but for now its just 1

    Answer by tabbys4 at 3:11 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • Once a week cuz I have two full time jobs!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:19 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • We both work, so we only have sex once a week ... usually on the weekend. He doesn't get home from work until 630pm. After cooking dinner, feeding & putting to bed our 8 month old son, we are exhausted! But on the weekends we are able to have more time to ourselves :)

    Even before our son was born, we only did it 1-2 times per week. Again, we were both working and when we get home, we just want to relax.

    Answer by ap9902 at 3:23 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • If it was up to ME, it would be every day. But he's more tired from work than i am. He also likes morning sex, I like night sex. But, we average out to about 3 times a week. Sometimes more, sometimes less.

    Answer by samurai_chica at 3:26 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • Average is once a week.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:29 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • Well... dang. I don't want to say, yea, we're that pathetic. :( Let's just say, the reason I'm preggo now is b/c I got drunk and let my guard down... dang it...

    Answer by bun-n-ma-oven at 4:29 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • if we are both paying attention, twice a week. we actually have his night and my night. rather than feeling pressured, i look forward to it. i know other things won't be on my mind and i can make time. my husband is available 24/7. he gets it more this way, even more if those nights are memorable!

    Answer by happi-ladi at 4:30 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • We don't live together and I have my daughter 50% of the time. So I'd say about 2 times a week during the times that I don't have my daughter.

    Answer by kathyartist2007 at 4:32 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

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