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Same question, different situation.

I just recently asked the question, who would you save, your husband or your child, and so far, everyone answered well. I would save my child too. As I stated in the details of the question, i see that some stepmothers have a problem with their husband's children. Now, i ask the same question, but instead of your own children, because obviously, sane people and people with common sense and a kind heart would save their child would you save your STEP child or your DEAR husband?

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Asked by slymnsexsi30 at 3:15 PM on Jan. 23, 2009 in Relationships

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  • You know, I thought that's what you meant - but I answered anyway.


    I am a SK not a SM so I'm reallllllly hoping all the SMs go for the kids. I don't wanna die!!!!!!!!!

    Answer by Wimsey at 3:17 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • well like my last answer i would save all my kids 2 bio's and my 2 sd's. my family has ups and downs but i still love them all.

    Answer by tabbys4 at 3:17 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • im sorry but i would save my husband. if he wanted to give his life up for his kid thats his choice. but i wouldnt want him to die so i would save him.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:20 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • This is a stupid question.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:22 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • As a SK, I think it's interesting!

    I know my SM would have had my butt saved so fast - but she's an exceptional person!

    Answer by Wimsey at 3:23 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • to the ANONYMOUS person who said this ? is stupid, obviously is a step mother who feels left out . Im just asking a ?. this website allows you to ask any ? you have, rather you feel its stupid or what. I was raised to know that STUPID QUESTIONS ARE THE ONES THAT ARE NOT ASKED!!! So uhm.. Yeah!

    Answer by slymnsexsi30 at 3:27 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • Id still save the child.

    Answer by BonesDragonDew at 3:28 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • Because i can't believe that anyone would even think of being in this position, where they had to choose death between a step child & there parent. That's sick in my opnion that someone would come up with that. I could not conjur up a negative thought like that, & i never would.


    Answer by Anonymous at 3:31 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • I would save any child...even if I didn't know them or their parents. Children need our protection; they are small and don't have critical thinking skills. I wouldn't be able to live with myself if I saved any adult over any child.

    Answer by brandyj at 4:14 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • good   To Brandyi, she hit the nail on the head.


    Answer by Kat122 at 4:35 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

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