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would you

take away your 21 year old daughter's cigarettes?

 
Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 4:35 PM on Jan. 23, 2009 in General Parenting

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Answers (13)
  • I would not it is her life now, she is 21. But I would say something like I gave you a healthy body to live your life in the least you can do is treat it right and take care of your self!
    jem102675

    Answer by jem102675 at 4:38 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • Nope, she's 21.....she's an adult and a grown woman......... her choice
    MyMayBaby_Chloe

    Answer by MyMayBaby_Chloe at 4:36 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • no she's an adult she should be allowed to make her own choices
    SThompson21

    Answer by SThompson21 at 4:36 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • 21? lol, if your saying would you sneak them for yourself, then yeah i would, but to take them away for no reason, thats just starting war
    americansugar80

    Answer by americansugar80 at 4:37 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • If she still lived in my house and I didn't allow smoking.... Yes I Would!
    TammyG.

    Answer by TammyG. at 4:37 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • Nope. Even if she was living in my house.. if she didn't do them IN the house, then I would have no right to take them away. She is 21 after all, and it's her choice.
    celticreverie

    Answer by celticreverie at 4:38 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • for a 21 yr old? are you kidding? if i wasnt a smoker id just tell her to take that outside.
    vadasmom

    Answer by vadasmom at 4:40 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • im gonna go with all the other posters..why would you take them away? aside that we all know its bad for us..
    tnteaton

    Answer by tnteaton at 4:45 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • 21 you said?

    well, then this will be your answer. if you are a non-smoker household then just tell her to go outside. other than that: its not your business, she is old enough ;)
    m.robertson811

    Answer by m.robertson811 at 4:45 PM on Jan. 23, 2009

  • No shes an adult but I wouldn't let her smoke in my house. I'd probably constantly remind her of the damage shes doing to her body! Hopefully she'd get sick of hearing it and quit! Of course easier said then done.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:36 PM on Jan. 23, 2009