ok so a real quick history on me and the hubby back in high school i went out a few times with my brother in law but i didn't know my husband existed for a long tome but when we met we became bff's ok well it didn't work out with me and my brother in law nothing intimate between us. just high school crush type stuff. well anyhow fast forward 5 years my hubby and i are still besties and we developed feelings for each other. when we decided to make it official my mom asked if we were dating and i lied and said no well she was pissed when she found out. words were said between the two. 11 years later my husband still holds a grudge. ok now my problem. we have a 19 mo. old and i am paying my mom 300 every two weeks the same as a day care would charge. ( i got quotes). my hubby doesn't feel that we should pay her because she is his grandma. it is causing a huge strain on the relationship. but it helps my mom who doesn't work. she keeps him all day and night some days and sometimes its a week because of our work schedules. i told him tonight that if it were his mom he wouldn't be acting like that but he make excuses that his mom would never need help. he is always trowing in my face how he has made more than me over the years and he how makes more now by like .50. he only brings in more because he is able to do overtime and i cannot. he told me tonight that if i still wanted to pay my mom we need to seperate our monies and live like that and i told him if he wanted it to be that way we should separate period. was i wrong. what do you thin? suggestions anyone?Answer Question
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