Nothing is going to be too safe. Watch TO CATCH A PREDATOR. Nothing is that safe, no matter how you check up on it. Even if you do check like the first poster does, my worry is, kids lie. Let's be honest. Your kid can invite them to be a friend, or can still have conversations without you ever knowing or adding someone as a friend. You may go who's that, and they'll give you an answer. Doesn't mean it's the truth. Also doesn't mean that they're lying. They could think it's the truth. Someone doesn't have to be your friend or know anything about you to send you a message. I would just be a little worried about anything. Do what you can, but I don't like myspace for kids, or even adults too much. A lot of adults use it to cheat, it's not a bad site but no one of my favorites. Just my opinion.
at 5:27 PM on Jul. 20, 2008