My cousin and I have been extremely close our entire lives. We've lived together and we share everything. She was at the birth of my first child. She is my best friend. I recently moved halfway across the country. So, because I can't see her as often, we talk on the phone several times a day, or chat online. Our husbands seem to have a problem with this. if we are on the phone, one of them is likely to say something rude such as, "her again?" or "why do you need to talk to her all the time" Or my favorite " Doesn't she have anyone else to call". Sometimes, they are just kidding, but it gets annoying. Why don't they understand the bond? Why do they have such a problem with us talking to each other?
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Yes, my husband is like that but when he is, he has a point. I am a small business owner and spent a lot of time on the computer chatting and assisting my customers. It makes extra money for our family and gets my artwork out there. I thought that he would think it was great but it turns out, he gets jealous of the time I spend on the computer. I put myself in his shoes and I get irritated when he spends more time with his friends than with me or when he does off and reads or sits on the computer leaving me with no one to talk to. I think he's just fumbling with a way to let you know that he'd appreciate some moderation...and some more time with you. I'm sure he has no problem with you talking to your cousin but take a step back and ponder if it's a little overboard and could a tad bit more time be spent with him/other things?
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