Ok so when i was in high school i had a lot of self esteem issues and used to abuse diet pills, throw up, take pills and not eat, exercise twice a day (all without eating food, just ice cubes and water and 1C of pasta salad a day). Well when i went to college i gained a little weight but was ok with it. Well when i was preg i only gained 24lbs and felt good well my DD is 7 mos andim a SAHM and have NO time to work off extra weight ( ihave actually gained like 15 lbs). I found out my bf looks at porn (whatever every guy does it) but now i keep thinking that he doesnt find me pretty anymore since i gained weight. I mean he is no skinny muscle guy so i dont know why im freaking out but i am. (contd)Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 4:31 PM on Jan. 25, 2009 in Relationships
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Answer by Bmat at 4:44 PM on Jan. 25, 2009
Honey 1st of all you need to quit beating yourself up. You had a baby it takes your body approximately a year to get back to the way it was before you were pregnant this includes rebuilding iron stores etc.. cut yourself some slack you just made a person, it took 9 months to make that baby. Be kind to yourself and put yourself on your list, eat a good breakfast and trust me when your little one starts moving you will get plenty of exercise. cont.
Answer by norbert at 5:09 PM on Jan. 25, 2009
As far as your man goes you need to talk to him and tell him how your are feeling. Ask him what is going on, why he isn't interested etc.. you are right most guys (I wont say all because someone will get on here and yell about how hers doesn't) look at porn. The two may have nothing to do with each other. It's possible he is stressed, depressed, tired, a lot of things, he just became a father 7 months ago, it's a big change for everyone in the house.
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