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How do you still feel sexy when you are overweight?

I have been having trouble lately because of my weight. I am a sexual person and since gaining the baby weight (and not being able to get rid of it for a long time) I am having trouble feeling good about myself, especially when it comes to "alone time" with my husband. He doesn't seem to have a problem with it but I do. My weight is enough of a problem that certain things are uncomfortable or even impossible for me to do anymore. Other than just losing the weight (which I am working on, its just a slow process) does anyone have any tips for "feeling sexy" or better about myself?

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Asked by Anonymous at 11:35 PM on Jan. 25, 2009 in Beauty & Style

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  • Just do something about it and for now when being intimate with dh just have a night light on and get down..woohoo maybe you won't think too much of it. While you are loosing you are slowly getting better about the way you feel. GLtreadmill


    Answer by Anonymous at 11:49 PM on Jan. 25, 2009

  • Sexiness comes from the inside not the outside. Most men find self confidence much more sexier than what they see on the outside.

    Answer by PrttyMstng at 6:00 AM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • TAN TAN TAN i always feel sexier with a tan....and go shoppin buy some lingerie!!!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:42 PM on Jan. 28, 2009

  • Oh my goodness, you pretty much wrote about me down to a tee! Wow! I'm starting to lose my weight so it's getting easier but I just don't think I'm there yet. Good luck!

    Answer by Steff107 at 8:17 PM on Feb. 8, 2009

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