My dh has been online chatting with gay men. He asks them if they want to suck him, have sex with him etc. He identifies himself as a "top". I am totally bothered by this but i don't know how to approach the subject or if I should at all. he has never given me any reason to think that he is gay or bisexual..
Asked by Anonymous at 1:42 AM on Jan. 26, 2009 in Relationships
Answer by Rebecca7708 at 1:45 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Answer by FuzNet at 1:49 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Answer by bubblycute at 1:50 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
I am way too up front about things if my SO was doing that he would be damn sure getting asked from me, ask him and if I were you be blunt about it but compassionate too because if he is it maybe very hard for him to come out and say so, if he says no he isn't then you need to find out why in the hell he would be doing that because let me tell you hunny no straight man is even amused by that kind of thing
Answer by hautemama83 at 1:50 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Answer by hopelessnance at 2:06 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Definitely GAY! He's using the terminology, identifying himself as a top. I was seriously have a talk with him and protect yourself cause he may be acting on it already.
Answer by kira25 at 2:43 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
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