I am a single mother now of two great kids. Me and my ex broke up and he's the father of my kids. I lied to him telling him I cheated to see his reaction and his reaction was leaving me and finding another woman. I still luv him tho and he plays these games saying he wants to talk and then he comes over to just sleep w/ me then never calls again til it's time to get the kids. I understand him. I told him the truth that I lied about being w/ another man, b/c I wanted to see if he luved me alot to still stay w/ me like I did him when he cheated a few times on me. But no he RAN!!!I'm still living my life good w/ my kids, and I understand I'm ok w/o my ex but y don't I still miss him SOOOO much and kinda wanna still be w/ him?Answer Question
Answer by jodi205 at 9:15 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Answer by Anonymous at 9:20 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Answer by gemgem at 9:21 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Sounds like you both are very immature - perhaps some time by yourself, spent on figuring out what you want in life and what the best examples to set for your children, would be beneficial.
Best of luck.
Answer by Wimsey at 9:22 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
So let me get this right. He cheated on you and you forgave him and stayed with him. You decide to LIE to him and say you cheated, to see if he would forgive you and stay with you, like you did.
You won't do that again will you. He doesn't feel the same way about that stuff like you do.
Advice here..The next guy you get with, don't try that on him.
Answer by louise2 at 9:33 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Answer by salexander at 10:13 AM on Jan. 26, 2009
Answer by Deidra08 at 2:11 PM on Jan. 26, 2009
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