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doctor told me today that i can't have sex until the baby is born. BF kind of a sex freak. how would you tell your BF that you can't have sex for 15 weeks without making him or getting him mad or pissed off? i am 25 weeks pregnant.

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Asked by Katiebears89 at 1:36 PM on Jan. 26, 2009 in Pregnancy

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  • just that that is what ur doctor told u what else do u do

    Answer by josalin at 1:38 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • Hmmm... sex? Or threatening the life and/or well-being of your child?
    Tough decision.
    Buy him a Flesh Light or a Pocket P***y.
    Or try to keep sex to oral only.

    Answer by littlemrsmarcel at 1:38 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • hey girl whats up? you just need to be honest and if he cares anything about the baby he will understand. why would he get pissed off? or do you have one like i do and he will get pissed at the drop of the hat? i say screw him the hell of that baby is more important .

    Answer by jodi205 at 1:39 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • Your bf is just gonna have to deal with it. You just tell him, flat out, that the doctor said no, and tell him why. If he has a problem with it tell him he can call your doctor and have HIM explain it.

    Answer by CarolynBarnett at 1:40 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • i have lost 2 babies to a M/C had low amniotic fluid and i had some bleeding today so yeah it would be life threatening to my baby. Sorry he isn't into the whole toy thing. and im not allowed to be touched or anything no SEX Oral or anything. its hard to tell a guy he can't use his member when he likes to. lol

    Answer by Katiebears89 at 1:40 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • The baby is more important than him being pissed off. So what if he does get pissed? He'll get over it.

    Answer by lilbit837 at 1:40 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • just tell him this is how it is baby comes first or at least i hope he or she would before the bf dick

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:41 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • he can use his hand.

    Answer by jodi205 at 1:41 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • yes jodi my bf is a jerk sometimes and wouldn't or don't understand the whole keep the baby safe thing so yeah it is messed up but i live with it. lol its a guy thing what can you do?? besides hit them with a frying pan. lol jk jk

    Answer by Katiebears89 at 1:41 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

  • Yeah what JODI said. He's not gonna get mad if he really cares. Besides there is more to "sex" then the act it's self. BJ's and hand jobs are an alternative. Shoot get him a dirty video and say got some bad news thought you might like this. A Girls Gone Wild is just a bunch of boobs... Nothing nasty nasty.

    Answer by CorCorsmomma at 1:43 PM on Jan. 26, 2009

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