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So a little bit of back story, my DF and his ex broke up when my SS (I hate calling him that!) was 9 months old. He has not seen her nor talked to her since then. And now that he is 4yrs old, she wants to see him. She has no parental rights and hasn't for a while. She never did the classes that was court ordered in the state of AZ. Now we all live in CA, ironically in the San Diego area. But I just don't understand why she wants to see him now. On the court papers she even got his age wrong! I mean how do you get the age of your child wrong?
I am worried that if she does get visitation, I am praying for supervised visitation just for the simple fact that, I don't want to send my SS that neither of us know, you know what I mean? And I am scared that she is going to try and push the whole she is his mother thing on him, he is 4, I dont think that he will understand that to much. I am the only woman that he has ever really known as mom. I am the one that takes care of him everyday, taught him how to count, and everything else.
But above all else I am scared about what affect that this could have on my SS!
Any advice or tips or anything really, would be greatly appreciated.
*Not sure where to put this.
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