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Do you hold grudges on here?

Like if someone gave you an answer you didn't like let's say....6 months to a year ago,would you still get upset with them if they answered your question with a neutral response and/or downvote them?


Asked by butterflyblue19 at 5:49 PM on May. 3, 2012 in About CafeMom

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Answers (21)
  • I wouldn't down vote them and I doubt I'd even remember them after the next shiny object came to view. The only caveat would be if someone insulted my children or my grandchildren (yes, it's happened)

    Answer by BrawnwynII at 5:53 PM on May. 3, 2012

  • I only hold grudges against people who treat me badly over & over IRL. (like my mother-in-law, even dh is PO'ed at her) But on here? What is the point? I don't even know anyone personally, IRL, so what they think about my answers is pretty much irrelevant at the end of the day. Now, there are a very few who I know will always have a completely ignorant or derogatory answer / comment. But those few are just that way, and easy enough to ignore.

    Answer by 29again at 2:16 AM on May. 4, 2012

  • Nobody has given me reason to hold a grudge here. I really don't like to hold onto negative feelings. I try to just let most things go, although I don't think there has been anything said to me on CM that would make me feel that way anyhow.


    Answer by QuinnMae at 11:38 PM on May. 3, 2012

  • I have been specially with one person in particular. but i am letting it go.

    Answer by couponluv72 at 10:05 PM on May. 3, 2012

  • only if my family is attacked

    Answer by luvmygrandbaby at 7:49 PM on May. 3, 2012

  • For one answer no. If it was constant I probably would.

    Answer by DJDNY at 7:36 PM on May. 3, 2012

  • It takes a lot to piss me off, but usually I don't.

    Answer by JackieGirl007 at 7:24 PM on May. 3, 2012

  • For one answer? No, of course not. All my grudges are a result of constant and increasing hostility :)


    Answer by momto2boys973 at 7:13 PM on May. 3, 2012

  • Hmmm I try not too, but some peope sure make it difficult!

    Answer by kylie_bob at 6:25 PM on May. 3, 2012

  • I also can only think of one person that I REALLY couldn't stand to see her answers. She hasn't been around but man did she bug the crap out of me!

    Answer by amazinggrace83 at 6:22 PM on May. 3, 2012