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are men always like that they throw tantrums on their wife ?why is that ?before marriage this never arrise after marraige their is dispute in small things why is that ?does this happen to everbody?

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asatyal

Asked by asatyal at 1:15 PM on Jan. 27, 2009 in Relationships

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  • Mine doesnt.
    gemgem

    Answer by gemgem at 1:17 PM on Jan. 27, 2009

  • We haven't married but have been together 5 1/2 yrs and two toddlers and we argue over everything silly. People would almost think we were siblings rather than a couple sometimes.
    watersgirls

    Answer by watersgirls at 1:19 PM on Jan. 27, 2009

  • A wedding license to them is permission to try out whatever they can and see what they can get away with. Tantrums are so annoying, you should just shake your head and tell him what a turn off it is to see he have the consipated look on his face while acting like a three yr old throwing fit. Don't react to his stupidity just like a child men only do what you allow them to get away with and tantrums are gateway to other bad behavior like verbal abuse, mental abuse even physical if he thinks you are weak and don't stand up to him NOW! Men do not respect doormats so do something for yourself tell him he has you mixed up if he thinks you are putting up with that behavior!!!
    1countrygal

    Answer by 1countrygal at 1:20 PM on Jan. 27, 2009

  • Some men aren't cut out to be husbands, they stay childish and can't accept that it's a partnership. My ex is a perfect example, like you pointed out, before being married he was fine, but he was one of those who thought he "owned" hi wife, so of course it didn't work out, but his childish behavior makes for great stories now.
    heratyc

    Answer by heratyc at 1:21 PM on Jan. 27, 2009

  • No, my husband has never done that, but then his personality isn't like that. After the excitement of the wedding has worn off, some people think they can behave as they wish without having any concern about the behavior coming back to bite them. Calm discussion, and even counseling if necessary, may help.
    Bmat

    Answer by Bmat at 1:24 PM on Jan. 27, 2009

  • My husband doesn't throw tantrums. He's a peach!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:41 PM on Jan. 27, 2009

  • I agree with Bmat. My husband is NOT like that at all, so it's not everybody.

    Navymama

    Answer by Navymama at 1:50 PM on Jan. 27, 2009

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