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my son's dad told me i spoil our son too much. he needs to be discplined. and he should be talking more.
my son is 1 years old. he will actually be 2 next month. i take care of my son by myself.
his father has not contributed to my son's well being in God's no when.
yes i buy my son things but I do not spoil. yes i discipline him but i am not going to abuse him. and yes he does talk but what do you expect him to recite a poem he's only going to be 2 for god's sake.
my son's dad constantly ridicules my parenting skills. when i am the one taking care of myson. i am buying diapers , clothes, food, etc. i am paying $480 per month for child care.
he does nothing for my son.
Asked by Anonymous at 12:24 PM on May. 7, 2012 in General Parenting
as long as you are doing what you can... then what his dad says doesn't and shouldn't mean anything to you. If he's not taking the initiative to try and provide for him, then he doesn't have a say. That's the way I feel about it. I don't know the whole situation and I don't know if there are papers in place, but if there aren't then I would just keep doing what you are doing.
My ex used to do the same and try to make me out to be the bad guy and he had my son brainwashed to his way of thinking. Luckily my son had a huge eye opener and now sees things for what they really are. Now mom isn't so bad after all!! lol
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