My Fiance is a paramedic. Sometimes he has to go out in the middle of the night on call and whatnot. There is this one woman who works for a different company whom they have been on a lot of calls together. They dont' work side by side, but if there is an accident or something they usually are both there. Now, I have known her ever since I was about 10 years old..so we have a lot of history. She and her husband are good friends with my parents (she is about 10 years older than me.)
Once in a while she will call or text my fiance, usually it's about work problems and whatnot. Sometimes it gets annoying constantly hearing his phone going off and it's her. Last night he was asleep and I was bored. I was using his phone to surf the web when he got a text from her it wasn't anything bad just something random about an accident she was just at. I began reading thier past texts back and forth to each other.... earlier that day they were bitching about the changes that were going on with in their companies and new rules. Out of nowhere she sent him a text that said "by the way you're really sexy when you're angry". He didn't respond to her, but kept talking about work stuff instead. I was so hurt by that because I have known her for so long and I felt completely disrespected. This morning he could tell I had something on my mind and I admitted to him that I had read his texts and what I had found. He told me that he did think it was a little weird but thought that maybe she was trying to make him laugh so he ignored it.
Am I out of line here or over reacting? I can't get it out of my head. I've always had this feeling that she had a crush on him but since I have known her FOREVER I brushed it off. but this is really bothering me! I can't even ask my Mom's advice on it because my mom loves her so much I'd hate to taint her feelings about her. ugh! help?
I trust my fiance 100% and know that he'd never do anything to hurt me especially cheat or anything.
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